The thing about being married is... before anyone asks how have you been, they blatantly ask one thing, "pregnant yet? "
And when the answer is NO, they ask an insensitive question, "planning eh?"
Sumpah aku macam nak tumbuk gigi dorang biar termasuk balik dalam gusi.
They have had a life.
They've been 'just' married & went through the same thing here I bet.
So why ask when they should know how it feels kan? Simply stupid!
I am not angry that we've not conceived yet.
I am just angry that each time these people see me at a wedding, my grandfather's house or just coincidentally bump into each other, without asking the norm what-are-you-doing-here, they said ilah da ada belum?
If I were to ikutkan hati, I would say... "kepo asal? nak tanggungkan?"
We're in no hurry to have a kid but we are building our foundation to have a family.
Savings. For our own good & for the future together and not with these busybody noses.
So yea. We've been good. Struggling but almost there :)
There's nothing I would not do the same all over again.
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